Happy 7th Birthday to our biggest little boy, Freddie.
From being told at my 20 week scan that our baby’s brain wasn’t developing right. To the endless tests and scans. Being told no-one had any answers but being offered a possible termination, by panel, up to 39 weeks. Freddie was born, totally spontaneously, at 35 weeks.
We were so frightened that he wouldn’t arrive safely that we had no baby stuff at all. Nothing. We didn’t dare buy anything. So, during our stay in SCBU with the amazing staff there, Ollie went shopping. Greeted at the door of Mothercare, I think the shop assistant could see the look of shock on his face and took pity. Freddie was teeny so we needed teeny everything. She took him round the shop and he got everything we needed for the time being including a car seat to get him home. Thankfully a good friend of ours donated their old cot, feeding chair and travel cot. Phew. Ollie got the whole room ready and all the furniture built in time for his arrival home.
Even after all the scans we have, over 15 weeks, we never found out if our baby was a girl or a boy. We wanted to have just one surprise and surprised we were. Ollie was due on a plane that weekend for a wedding and my mum was away on holiday. She said as a joke, don’t go having the baby will you. She thought Ollie was playing a practical joke on her when he called Greece to tell her I was in labour. She managed to get on the only flight of the week out of there and made it back 24 hours after he was born.
With all the conversations we had with the professionals around what Freddie was unlikely to achieve, he surprises us each and every day. It hasn’t been easy and it will continue in that way but boy do we love and adore him. I don’t really believe in using language like ‘fight’ when talking about the challenges we face but in this instance, I will say that I have fought so hard every step of the way for my little teeny weeny baby. Right from 20 weeks pregnant to the grand age of 7. He might have nearly driven me crazy this week by saying “Mum” about 3 billion times (on top of the 2 billion Bella and Jago have said it) but what a star he is. We love you Super Fred. Xx
He was soooo excited when he saw his birthday gift. Ollie is pretty chuffed too, especially as he spent a few hours putting it together in darkness last night to be ready for this morning.
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